A Bucket-List for Christmas

Today I was an unwilling eye-witness of the fact that Walmart is swarmed with candy canes and snowmen, and the first of my neighbors have put up their lights.

I guess it’s official. The holiday season has begun.

And if you’re anything like me and my good pal Grumpy Cat…. you’re joinin’ us in our way of thinking.

grumpy cat

Christmas is not my favorite holiday. I adore my Savior, don’t get me wrong…. but these days, the real meaning of Christmas isn’t what it’s all about at all. Too much rushing, shopping, planning and stressing. Not enough quiet, worship & awe. I do have a proactive combat plan, though, this year, with the hopes that it will birth some peace, hope and cheer.

It’s called,



Because, after all, what spreads more peace, hope and cheer than a nice fat partridge that’s just been plucked out of a primival Genovian Pear-Tree?

Here’s how it actually goes. I have a Christmas Bucket List called The 12 Days of Christmas. Basically, 12 things to do on twelve different days leading up to the day of Christ’s birth. The point is to make good memories, encourage people, and to pour out the Father’s love and giving which is what our Savior’s arrival was all about.

It was a giving-of-Himself in an even deeper sense than I’ll ever fully understand, actually.

So here goes….

1. Fill a shoebox for Operation Christmas Child


Wrap a box. Fill with fun. Send to a child who needs a ray of hope. Can’t believe I’ve never done this. There are drop-off locations everywhere! But the deadline is November 18 so…. time to hit Five Below and some craft stores!

2. Send mail to soldiers.

Holiday Mail for Heroes: perfect opportunity to spread Christ’s love! I can’t imagine the mental and emotional pain soldiers face every day, but Jesus does…. and he has a cure. Deadline for mail to arrive at Mail for Heroes Headquarters: December 6.

3. Send Christmas cards… on time!

While we’re speaking of cards I’ll admit…. mine are usually late. Here’s to turning over a new leaf!

4. Donate blood.

Sounds gruesome… but it’s fast, simple, and comes with free snacks. And blood banks are low in my area.

5. Hear Handel’s ‘Messiah’ live.

My Mother’s favorite, and an old Christmas tradition that was dropped when we were old enough to (loudly) voice our complaints that the soloists shrill notes shattered our eardrums. The lyrics do a phenomenal job of capturing and displaying the Messiah’s journey of love and heartache.

6. Have a cookie-making (read: eating) party.


One word sums it up: YUM. Foremost on my mind: these^.

7.Tour the lights on a snowy night.

There’s just something about friends, hot chocolate, the wet, foggy chill of snowy air….

8. Watch a Christmas Drama.

Seeing the story in action sometimes brings up things I’ve never considered before, and always fills my heart with cheer.

9. Love up on kids in a children’s rehab center.

I just can’t forget Erica, the girl who wanted to talk & talk to me…. and had no one. She was my age, and bound to the confines of her sickness forever.

10. Bedazzle someone’s home in the dead of Christmas Eve night.

Holidays are painful reminders of days gone by for many, many people. A little goodwill might help.

11. Serve at a soup kitchen on Christmas morning.

A moment in a darker world can make you instantly wish for your own, even with it’s flaws. A moment of authentic love can sprout strength.

12. Drink eggnog for the first time.

Or read the Christmas story every day. Or sing “Deck the Halls” at top volume whenever an angry face is spotted. Or dress the dog up in a scandalously embarrassing costume and take her to visit my senior friends. Or do all of the above.

Simultaneously, even.

Hey, who said I need to make my mind up? It’s not even Thanksgiving yet, ya’ll! But I’d love to hear YOUR holiday traditions that make Christmas meaningful! Leave a comment… maybe I’ll try some of them!


Happy season of rejoicing to all, and to all a good night.


2 responses to “A Bucket-List for Christmas”

  1. Lisl Avatar

    I would love to spend Christmas with you! These were good things and I think I need to think up how I’m going to make Christmas feel “right” this year. I was just thinking not an hour ago about how un-holiday like I feel.

    1. Kara Avatar

      And I would gladly take you up on that, if I could 🙂 Here’s to making a difference, no matter where we live!

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